"By all means let's be open-minded, but not so open-minded that our brains drop out."
(Richard Dawkins)
We like to think that as individuals we are non-racist and tolerant people. We consider it a compliment to be called open-minded. And yet there’s a contradiction. Imagine you are going to a town many miles away where the customs are exceedingly different from anything you’ve ever seen or heard of. Being in custody of the Witness Protection Program, you arrive not knowing what to expect. Looking around, you are nearly blinded by all the vibrant shades of Prussian blue, cadmium yellow, sea green, and countless other shades that you didn’t even know existed. You take a second look – something seems to be missing.
Apparently in this place the color black is not accepted as a wearable color. Passersby are staring at your black slacks and a few muttered derogatory sounding words directed at your polished black dress shoes.
So you think to yourself, ‘What is wrong with these people? Can’t they be more open-minded? ’ After you finish bashing these people in your head, consider this. You are the minority. You just encroached on their territory, a complete stranger, and you want them to adapt to your differences. You should be grateful that you weren’t lynched. You should be open-minded to their way of living. I know you’re surprised that the world doesn’t revolve around you. Consider this; acceptance of differences will get you farther than an open mind.
(Maybe you should call the person in charge of your case anyways and request a destination change.)
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(hope this comment doesn't feel like déjà vu)
ReplyDeleteOpen-minded to their way of living - yes
Grateful you weren't lynched!?! I think someone else needs a lesson in being open-minded :/
Open mindedness is a two way street. Many times it is not that one is not open minded they are just uncomfortable or feel intimidated with the differences and just express it poorly.
ReplyDeleteThat being said, when one is attacked whether verbally or physically it would be a normal response to lash out at your attackers.
As a final thought, where can I find this town. I am tired of being surrounded by Oreo's and penguins :)